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Spiral Dance News
Unfolding The Femi9 Woman


June 2004  Volume 2  Number 06
 


Editor's Note

Welcome to the June edition of Spiral Dance News, a monthly ezine published byThe Femi9 Lodge.


Happy Birthday to all who are born in this month of June.

Ah, yes, those crazy, hazy, lazy days of Summer are about to come into existence. June 21st, my Mother's earthday, the Summer Solstice, the longest day in the year...a time to reap the seedlings of the Spring Equinox.

Not only do we have the Solstice to celebrate but an event that has not happened since 1882. Venus' transit across the Sun. This will take place on the 8th of June. Take time to pray and do ritual for yourself. For your peace of mind, for self love.

Before we can heal the world, we must heal ourselves and now is the time to do just that.

Check for links to the transit in the Cosmic Travel section of this newsletter.

Let us continue on our path of the Divine Femi9, with a light and joyous heart.

May all of your lessons come with grace and may your blessings be abundant!

Sending love and (((((hugs))))) to all of you and thanks for your continued support.

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Dub It Love

You know how we can sometimes get into a situation that causes us to feel emotional, mental and physcial pain and we just don’t know what to do with ourselves?

Well, something came to me as my beloved husband and I were talking. He made a statement. He said, “Go to love and while you are there, love yourself.”

That sounded so right. All you have to do, is go to love. Now having been a student of yoga at a very young age, I knew that love translated to OM in the Hindi language. It was something that I chanted time and time again and the feeling was always one of peace as well as love of all things.

So, I began to chant and sing, OM while we were driving and then I got a revealation. Would you like to know what it was? Of course you do. It was clap your own rhythm. I began clapping and it helped to center me even more so.

I had heard some time ago that clapping was a way of getting rid of negative energy. With that in mind, I said to myself, “ Why not clap when one is off centered?”

And you know how the mind works when you start to let it download information. It never fails to let you know the next step in your spiritual evolution.

Knowledge is power, and the application of that knowledge is even more powerful.

Here now is an application that can be used over and over again, when faced with a challenge that just seems to had to bare.

Let’s say that there is a financial challenge in your life. All too many of us know about that one. What came to me was to dub all of my debts paid in full. That includes karmic debts, financial debts, emotional debts...as I said ALL debts.

On the other hand, you may want to get that perfect job, or have that perfect career, or that perfect mate. What do you do in that case? The same thing you did for your debts. Dub everything love. It’s like being knighted by the Queen. You know, when the Queen says, “I dub thee...” Well, you are doing the very same thing. You are dubbing all of your situations, your challenges, your wants and desires with love. It is just that simple.

My first husband used to always say, “Simplicity is the complexity of life.” How true. The simpliest thing that we can do is to love ourselves first and then that love will flow from us to all that we touch.

So from now on, this may be a practice that you will want to incorporate into your life. Just begin by sayiing, “I dub this love.” And the rest will flow easily to you and from you. Try it. It can’t hurt.

(c) 2004 by Tonya K. Freeman, DD, MsD, DM - All Rights Reserved

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Become a Better Lover With Tantra III


(c)2004 by Rev. Goddess Charmaine



Sharing

Before we continue, go over parts one and two again! Ha Ha just joking. No really go over parts one and two in your mind and recall the sensations of loving yourself and loving others. Each level has a different flavor and vibration and both states capable of existing within you are vital to your ability to share love. Sexual frustration leads to sexual burnout and/or addiction. Sexual communication in thought word and deed leads to sacramental sex. This is a communion of body and soul between each divine human. This process is not for the purpose of serving the ego-personality, although it will benefit. Rather it is to reach the ultimate reality, The Divine, The ultimate male/female, The God/Goddess.

Releasing yourself from sexual frustration and /or bondage to addictions is foremost to sharing love and achieving high sex. In our quest to become a better lover we must acknowledge our sexual issues which manifest themselves in the form of frustrated energy and addictions that threaten our lives.

The Union of man and woman and all same sex relationships were intended for our mutual joy and evolution. When a person reaches the point of frustration it is mostly because of feelings of dissatisfaction during the act which connects to not just genital fulfillment and healing, additionally it fills every other aspect of our body spirits. Closeness safety trust courage belief growth love, etc. are all met by this power. We can reach this high state of our personal God/Goddess consciousness through our acts of sharing love together. We feed and evolve off of each other and we need to recognize the necessity of our ecstatic unions.

Women take a longer time to reach orgasm while a man can peak allot sooner. A man must speak to his woman's entire body and her spirit through his art of honoring her with himself. Think back on your level 2 exercise and recall your partner’s expression and gratefulness at your giving. For a woman to reach orgasm she needs to be penetrated deeply in her body and her heart. This is not done just because you marry her. This is done in the way you respect and honor her Woman/Goddess Spirit! A woman is divine by her birthright and everything she touches she changes. Honor this divine ability in the way you cherish the woman you give yourself to and she will let you into her holy kingdom.

A man feels confined and not appreciated for truly desiring “the woman”! When a man gives a compliment to a woman, the woman can consider it a blessing. Men at this point in our society are treated as sexual predators and this is exactly why so many addictions have developed. Same sex relationships are looked at as purely genital and freakish. Everyone and I mean every person is divine and the sexual act is an attempt to reach the space of God/Goddess that we unconsciously know is within us.

Men do have a different sexual drive and we women and partners should know how to use this energy. When a man is taking from his partner he will most likely do one of two things. He will ejaculate when ready or he will try to push his partner to reach orgasm with him and his partner will either have to reach it or fake it. Faking it mostly occurs with the women because they feel taken and not cared for sexually anyway. This process creates performance anxiety in both people and the dysfunctions cycle continues. A woman can come during masturbation and not with a partner if she does not feel safe. A woman can reach orgasm quicker in masturbation because we press on our energy centers and explode. We know our bodies.

A man needs to be respected for his desire to have sex and not treated like a dog. We need our man’s male vibration and his seed for so many powerful reasons.

All relationships strive for balance and no one is a victim of love.

There may be people that are better and even happier without sexual intercourse in their lives. This could be a gift of celibacy. Acknowledging these issues helps to release ourselves from the programming of unhealthy profane encounters. The sex act is no longer just a biological need and is most certainly not evil. Level III ~ Sharing Love Now you’re ready to share.

Embracing another spirit in the act of sexual union should not be taken lightly. However it should not be taken with expectation either. Only share your body and your consciousness and let the rest take care of itself. Even though we don’t think of it preparing for love is a ritual and care in your mind and body should be taken.

Make sure your have time to make love. Rushing through sex can only occur with someone you’ve been with for a while. You are already bonded so the quickies are fun. Without the real authentic connections quickies are like rape, and leave both parties feeling weak and vulnerable.

The best kind of lover is one aware of his or her spirituality and appreciating that your beliefs are shared in the way you share love.

A good woman is one endowed with clean smells that even when she has her menstrual flow there is not much change to her odor. This in part comes from her healthy mind and spirit where when she is filled with desire she knows no shame or restraint with her partner.

Men are born with all different shapes and sizes and it all depends on nature how their particular nature rises. He would do well to stay away from programming from society about what he is suppose to be and be thankful for the time to share himself and his nature.

Having honored each other in the previous exercises it is now that you are ready to share yourself in this most erotic and divine way. When both partners are of this thinking it is easier for satisfaction to be achieved. When there is an unequal balance then it will be harder, yet those gifted with tantric understanding can use the art of love and both partners can truly experience bliss. Discomfort between any couples makes it hard to do so.

Begin with setting your space with the proper music and incense if preferred. Make your bed the holy altar place by recognizing that you two are holy and you can only go to high states of ecstasy by being free with each other with your body and your parts on your bed. That means any sexual exchange that you both agree to share is honored, nothing is off limits if you both feel safe and ready. Begin with the heart salutation. Both partners standing nude and facing each other place their hands up in front of their heart with palms facing and fingers strait. Look into each others eyes and one at a time say. I honor the God/Goddess in you and bow to your partner while saying this to him or her.

Then coming together and embracing and begin kissing. After a time step back and do what is called The Five Fold Kiss. One partner at a time, you will bend onto your knees and placing your fingertips onto your partners feet say. Blessed are thy feet. Then raising hands to knees say, blessed are thy knees. Touching the sex center say, blessed is thy sex. At this point you will need to rise to your feet and touch the heart center of your partner and say, Blessed is thy heart and then touch the lips and say Blessed are thy lips. Then the other partner repeats this process for the blessing to be complete.

Move to a comfortable position on your bed or perhaps a strong chair might suffice for this part. One partner spreads their legs over top the other and bring your bodies close so your lips touch. One partner blows their breath into the other’s mouth and the recipients swallows the breath of life coming into them and then exhales a full breath gently back into the other’s mouth. Continue this soul sharing and soon you two will begin to join into each others soul vibration. Rock your bodies as you feel yourselves become filled with more and more energy. You can look into each others eyes if it is comfortable to do so at such a close space. This can go on for a while so I will not specify a time limit. Let yourselves feel when it is time to go on.

The first entry is always the best and is easy to move into from this position for most. While the rocking has been going on perhaps your lingam has grown to its full nature. While for her the rocking has given her yoni time to become moist.

Each man and woman has different sizes and some lingams work better with some yonis so a woman must know her depth and be able to accept his member fully.

Take in your partner and just sit on him and do not thrust, just hold him steady and feel each other. Squeeze your pc muscle and form your yoni to his lingam.

(The pc muscle is the muscle you would use if you were urinating and you wanted to stop the flow.) If you happen to be in a same sex relationship and you are two women you would continue by rubbing your nipples together and continue with kissing and breathing to the point of desiring to press your yonis together. You can press your yonis together for a moment and mesh your juices together and now squeeze your pc muscle to form your vibrations.

Now allow one partner to lie down either front or back and lick and kiss the entire body front and back. Take your time to spot kiss every where and send your energy into him or her. When you reach the anus and sex center blow your breath into the opening and send love. Erotic sizing the body and the spirit is exactly what you want to do. Make sure you take turns and while this is happening you’ll begin to feel lifted out of your body and highly sensitized to sensations.

Once this part is completed you two have joined yourselves together and pretty much anywhere you go from here is up to you. Remember your consciousness and know that you will be better for having allowed yourselves to embark on a new level of loving. Each time you choose to share in this way your sexual organs naturally adjust to each other. Your energy centers will become clearer and stronger. You will experience and see God/Goddess in your orgasm!

Goddess Blessings to you, I am Reverend Goddess Charmaine.

http://www.revcharmaine.com

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Herbal Vinegars

(c) by Susun Weed




A pantry full of herbal vinegars is a constant delight. Preserving fresh herbs and roots in vinegar is an easy way to capture their nourishing goodness. It's easy too. You don't even have to have an herb garden.

BASIC HERBAL VINEGAR Takes 5 minutes plus 6 weeks to prepare

You will need:

+ glass or plastic jar of any size up to one quart/liter
+ plastic lid for jar or
+ waxed paper and a rubber band
+ fresh herbs, roots, weeds
+ one quart/liter apple cider vinegar

Fill any size jar with fresh-cut aromatic herbs. (See accompanying list for suggestions of herbs that extract particularly well in vinegar.) For best results and highest mineral content, be sure the jar is well filled with your chosen herb, not just a few sprigs, and be sure to cut the herbs or roots up into small pieces.

Pour room-temperature apple cider vinegar into the jar until it is full. Cover jar with a plastic screw-on lid, several layers of plastic or wax paper held on with a rubber band, or a cork. Vinegar disintegrates metal lids.

Label the jar with the name of the herb and the date. Put it some place away from direct sunlight, though it doesn't have to be in the dark, and someplace that isn't too hot, but not too cold either. A kitchen cupboard is fine, but choose one that you open a lot so you remember to use your vinegar, which will be ready in six weeks.

Apple cider vinegar has been used as a health-giving agent for centuries. Hippocrates, father of medicine, is said to have used only two remedies: honey and vinegar. A small book on Vermont folk remedies - primary among them being apple cider vinegar - has sold over 5 million copies since its publication in the ‘50s. A current ad in a national health magazine states that vinegar can give me a longer, healthier, happier life.

Among the many powers of vinegar: it lowers cholesterol, improves skin tone, moderates high blood pressure, prevents/counters osteoporosis, and improves metabolic functioning. Herbal vinegars are an unstoppable combination: the healing and nutritional properties of vinegar married to the aromatic and health-protective effects of green herbs (and a few wild roots).

Herbal vinegars don't taste like medicine. In fact, they taste so good I use them frequently. I pour a spoonful or more on beans and grains at dinner; I use them in salad dressings; I season stir-fry and soups with them. This regular use boosts the nutrient-level of my diet with very little effort and virtually no expense. Sometimes I drink my herbal vinegar in a glass of water in the morning, remembering the many older women who've told me that apple cider vinegar prevents and eases their arthritic pains. I aim to ingest a tablespoon or more of mineral-rich herbal vinegar daily. Not just because herbal vinegars taste great (they do!), but because they offer an easy way to keep my calcium levels high (and that's a real concern for a menopausal woman of fifty). Herbal vinegars are so rich in nutrients that I never need to take vitamin or mineral pills.

Why vinegar? Water does a poor job of extracting calcium from plants, but calcium and all minerals dissolve into vinegar very easily. You can see this for yourself. Submerge a bone in vinegar for six weeks. What happens? The bone becomes pliable and rubbery. Why? The vinegar extracted the minerals from the bone. (And now the vinegar is loaded with calcium and other bone-building minerals!)

After observing this trick it’s not unusual to fear that if you consume vinegar your bones will dissolve. But you'd have to take off your skin and sit in vinegar for weeks in order for that to happen! Adding vinegar to your food actually helps build bones because it frees up minerals from the vegetables you eat. Adding a splash of vinegar to cooked greens is a classic trick of old ladies who want to be spry and flexible when they're ancient old ladies. (Maybe your granny already taught you this?) In fact, a spoonful of vinegar on your broccoli or kale or dandelion greens increases the calcium you get by one-third.

All by itself, vinegar helps build bones; and when it's combined with mineral-rich herbs, vinegar is better than calcium pills. Some people worry that eating vinegar will contribute to an overgrowth of candida yeast in the intestines. My experience has led me to believe that herbal vinegars do just the opposite; perhaps because they're so mineral rich. Herbal vinegars are especially useful for anyone who can't (or doesn't want to) drink milk. A tablespoon of infused herbal vinegar has the same amount of calcium as a glass of milk.

So out the door I go, taking a basket and a pair of scissors, my warm vest and my gloves, to see what I can harvest for my bone-building vinegars.

The first greens to greet me are the slender spires of garlic grass, or wild chives, common in any soil that hasn't been disturbed too frequently, such as the lawn, the part of the garden where the tiller doesn't go, the rhubarb patch, the asparagus bed, the coven of comfrey plants. This morning they're all offering me patches of oniony greens. Snip, snip, snip. The vinegar I'll make from these tender tops will contain not only minerals, but also allyls, special cancer-preventative compounds found in raw onions, garlic, and the like.

Here where tulips will push up soon, in a sunny corner, is a patch of catnip intermingled with motherwort, two plants especially beloved by women. I use catnip to ease menstrual cramps, relieve colic, and bring on sleep. Motherwort is my favorite remedy for moderating hot flashes and emotional swings. They are both members of the mint family, and like all mints, are exceptionally good sources of calcium and make great-tasting vinegars. Individual mint flavors are magically captured by the vinegar. From now until snow cover next fall, I'll gather the mints of each season - peppermint, spearmint, lemon balm, bee balm, oregano, shiso, wild bergamot, thyme, hyssop, sage, rosemary, lavender - and activate their unique tastes and their tonic, nourishing properties by steeping them in vinegar. What a tasty way to build strong bones, a healthy heart, emotional stability, and energetic vitality.

Down here, under the wild rose hedge, is a plant familiar to anyone who has walked the woods and roadsides of the east: garlic mustard. I'll enjoy the leaves in my salad tonight, as I do all winter and spring, but I'll have to wait a bit longer before I can harvest the roots, which produce a vibrant, horseradishy vinegar that's just the thing to brighten a winter salad and keep the sinuses clear at the same time.

And what's this? A patch of chickweed! It's a good addition to my vinegars and my salads, boosting their calcium content, though adding scant flavor. In protected spots, she offers year-round greens.

Look down. The mugwort is sprouting, all fuzzy and grey. I call it cronewort to honor the wisdom of grey-haired women. The culinary value of this very wild herb is oft o'erlooked. I was thrilled to find it for sale in Germany right next to the dried caraway and rosemary, in a little jar, in the supermarket. Cronewort vinegar is one of the tastiest and most beneficial of all the vinegars I make. It is renowned as a general nourishing tonic to circulatory, nervous, urinary, and mental functioning, as well as being a specific aid to those wanting sound sleep and strong bones. Cronewort vinegar is free for the making in most cities if you know where this invasive weed grows.

To mellow cronewort's slightly bitter taste and accent her fragrant, flavorful aspects, I pick her small (under three inches) and add a few of her roots to the jar along with the leaves. I cut the tall flowering stalks of this aromatic plant in the late summer or early autumn, when they're in full bloom, and dry them. The leaves, stripped carefully from the stalks, provided stuffing (and magic) for our winter dream pillows; they are said to carry one into vivid dreams and visions.

The sun is bright and strong and warm. I turn my face toward it and close my eyes, breathing in. I feel the vibrating life force here. Everything is aquiver. I smile, knowing that that energy will be available to me when I consume the vinegars I'll make from these herbs and weeds. As I relax against the big oak, I breathe out and envision the garden growing and blooming, fruiting and dying, as the seasons slip through my mind's eye....

The air grows chillier at night. The leaves fall more quickly with each breeze. The first mild frosts take the basil, the tomatoes and the squash, freeing me to pay attention once again to the perennial herbs and weeds, and urging me to make haste before even the hardy herbs drop their leaves and retreat to winter dormancy.

The day dawns sunny. Yes, now is the time to harvest the last of the garden's bounty, the rewards of my work, the gifts of the earth. I dress warmly (remembering to wear red; hunting season's open), stash my red-handled clippers in my back pocket, and take a basket in one hand and a plastic tub in the other.

Then I'm out the door, into autumn's slanting sunshine and my quiet garden. My black cat bounds over to help me harvest and, after a while, the white cat emerges from under the house to purr and signal her satisfaction with my presence in her domain this morning.

My gardening friends say the harvest is over for the year, but I know my weeds will keep me at work harvesting until well into the winter. In no time at all my deep basket is full and I'm wishing I'd brought another. Violet leaves push against stalks of lamb's quarter. Hollyhock, wild malva, and plantain leaves jostle for their own spaces against the last of the comfrey and dandelion leaves. (I think dandelion leaves are much better eating in the fall than in the spring, much less bitter to my taste after they've been frosted a few nights.) The last of the red clover blossoms snuggle in the middle. Though not aromatic or intensely flavored, a vinegar of these greens will be my super-rich calcium supplement for the dark months of winter.

My baskets are overflowing and I haven't gotten to the nettles and the raspberry leaves yet. They're superb sources of calcium, too. Ah! The gracious abundance of weeds, or should I say "volunteer herbs?" I actually respect them more than the cultivated herbs; respect their strident life force, and their powerful nutritional punch, and their added medicinal values that help me stay healthy and filled with energy.

The main work of this frosty fall morning is to harvest roots: dandelion, burdock, yellow dock, and chicory roots. I've been waiting for the frost to bite deep before harvesting the nourishing, medicinal roots of these weeds. With my spading fork (not a shovel, please) I carefully unearth their tender roots, leaving a few to mature and shed seeds so I have a constant supply of young roots. I love the feel of the root sliding free of the soil and into my hands, offering me such gifts of health.

Burdock I admire especially, for its strength of character and its healing qualities. I settle down to do some serious digging to unearth their long roots. For peak benefit, I harvest at the end of the first year of growth, when the roots are most tenacious and least willing to leave the ground. Patience is rewarded when I dig burdock. Eaten cooked or turned into a vinegar (and the pickled pieces of the root consumed with the vinegar), burdock root attracts heavy metals and radioactive isotopes and removes them quickly from the body. For several hundred years at least, and in numerous cases that I have witnessed, burdock root is known to reverse pre-cancerous changes in cells.

Dandelion and chicory are my allies for long life. They support and nourish my liver and improve the production of hydrochloric acid in my stomach, thus ensuring that I will be better nourished by any food I eat. I make separate vinegars of each plant, but like to put both their roots and their leaves together in my vinegar. A spoonful of either of these in a glass of water in the morning or before meals can be used to replace coffee. Note that roasted roots used in coffee substitutes do not have the medicinal value of fresh roots eaten cooked or preserved in vinegar.

Yellow dock is the herbalist's classic remedy for building iron in the blood. Like calcium, iron is absorbed better when eaten with an acid, such as vinegar, making yellow dock vinegar an especially good way to utilize the iron-enhancing properties of this weed. (It nourishes the iron in the soil, too, and is said to improve the yield of apple trees it grows under.)

And at that thought, I awaken from my reverie and return to spring's sunshine with a smile. The white cat twines my legs and offers to help me carry the basket back inside to the warmth of the fire. The circle has come around again, like the moon in her courses. Autumn memories yield spring richness. The weeds of fall offer tender green magic in the spring. What I harvested last November has been eaten with joy and I return to be gifted yet again by the wild that lives here with me in my garden.

NOTES ON MAKING HERBAL VINEGAR

+ It is vital to really fill the jar. This will take more herb or root than you would think.

+ A good selection of jars of different sizes will enable you to fit your jar to the amount of plant you've collected. I especially like baby food jars, mustard jars, olive jars, peanut butter jars and juice jars. Plastic is fine, though I prefer glass.

+ Always fill jar to the top with plant material; never fill a jar only part way.

+ Pack the jar full of herb. How much? How tight? Tight enough to make a comfortable mattress for a fairy. Not too tight and not too loose. With roots, fill jar to within a thumb's width of the top.

+ For maximum strength herbal vinegar, snip or chop herbs and roots.

+ For maximum visual delight, leave plants whole.

+ Regular pasteurized apple cider vinegar from the supermarket is what I use when I make my herbal vinegar. Unpasteurized apple cider vinegar can also be used. Note that unpasteurized vinegar forms vinegar "mothers." Vinegar mothers are harmless. (Actually, they're of value. I've seen vinegar mothers for sale for fancy prices in specialty food shops.) In a jar filled with herb and vinegar, the vinegar mother usually grows across the top of the jar, clinging to the herb, and looking rather like a damp, thin pancake.

+ Rice vinegar, malt vinegar, wine vinegar, or any other natural vinegar can be used, but they are much more expensive than apple cider vinegar and many have a taste which overpowers or clashes with the taste of the herbs.

+ I don't use white vinegar, nor do I use umeboshi vinegar (a Japanese condiment).

+ The reason that most recipes for herbal vinegar tell you to boil the vinegar is to pasteurize it! I do not find it necessary to heat the vinegar as it is already pasteurized and the final vinegar tastes better if the herbs are not doused with boiling vinegar.

PLANTS THAT MAKE EXCEPTIONALLY GOOD-TASTING HERBAL VINEGARS

Apple mint leaves, stalks
Bee balm (Monarda didyma) flowers, leaves, stalks
Bergamot (Monarda sp.) flowers, leaves, stalks
Burdock (Arctium lappa) roots
Catnip (Nepeta cataria) leaves, stalks
Chicory (Cichorium intybus) leaves, roots
Chives and especially chive blossoms
Dandelion (Traxacum off.) flower buds, leaves, roots
Dill (Anethum graveolens) herb, seeds
Fennel (Foeniculum vulgare) herb, seeds
Garlic (Allium sativum)
Garlic mustard (Alliaria officinalis)
Goldenrod (Solidago sp.) flowers
Ginger (Zingiber off.) and Wild ginger (Asarum canadensis) roots
Lavender (Lavendula sp.) flowers, leaves
Mugwort (Artemisia vulgaris) new growth leaves and roots
Orange mint leaves, stalks
Orange peel, organic only
Peppermint (Mentha piperata and etc.) leaves, stalks
Perilla (Shiso) leaves, stalks
Rosemary(Rosmarinus off.) leaves, stalks
Spearmint (Mentha spicata) leaves, stalks
Thyme (Thymus sp.) leaves, stalks
White pine (Pinus strobus) needles
Yarrow (Achilllea millifolium) flowers and leaves

PLANTS TO USE WHEN MAKING AN HERBAL CALCIUM SUPPLEMENT Amaranth (Amaranthus retroflexus) leaves
Cabbage leaves Chickweed (Stellaria media) whole herb
Comfrey (Symphytum officinalis) leaves
Dandelion leaves and root
Kale leaves
Lambsquarter (Chenopodium album) leaves
Mallow (Malva neglecta) leaves
All mints, including sage, motherwort, lemon balm, lavender, peppermint, etc.
Mugwort (cronewort) (Artemisia vulgaris)
Nettle (Urtica dioica) leaves
Parsley (Petroselinum sativum) leaves
Plantain (Plantago majus) leaves
Raspberry (Rubus species) leaves
Red clover (Trifolium pratense) blossoms
Violet (Viola ordorata) leaves
Yellow dock (Rumex crispus and other species) roots
HERBAL VINEGARS WHERE YOU EAT THE PICKLED PLANTS, TOO

Burdock
Chicory
Dandelion
Purslane
Yellow Dock
Legal Disclaimer: This content is not intended to replace conventional medical treatment. Any suggestions made and all herbs listed are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease, condition or symptom. Personal directions and use should be provided by a clinical herbalist or other qualified healthcare practitioner with a specific formula for you. All material on this website/email is provided for general information purposes only and should not be considered medical advice or consultation. Contact a reputable healthcare practitioner if you are in need of medical care. Exercise self-empowerment by seeking a second opinion.

Vibrant, passionate, and involved, Susun Weed has garnered an international reputation for her groundbreaking lectures, teachings, and writings on health and nutrition. She challenges conventional medical approaches with humor, insight, and her vast encyclopedic knowledge of herbal medicine. Unabashedly pro-woman, her animated and enthusiastic lectures are engaging and often profoundly provocative.

Susun is one of America's best-known authorities on herbal medicine and natural approaches to women's health. Her four best-selling books are recommended by expert herbalists and well-known physicians and are used and cherished by millions of women around the world.

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Nourish Yourself on a Date for One

(c) 2004 by Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway - All rights reserved

“For The Goddess In You

From A Goddess Is A Girl’s Best Friend
(Perigee Books, December 2002)


It is so important that we nourish ourselves – body, mind and spirit -- and treat ourselves like goddesses. Being kind to ones self is a healthy habit to get into, and the best way to get into the groove is to set aside “Goddess Time” each week for you, and you alone!

We give so much to others, why be stingy with ourselves? Whether in a relationship, hoping to be, or simply enjoying single life, a date with ones self is a powerful metaphor for self-nourishment. And it is the first and most important step toward a balanced, loving relationships with others.

Where to begin? Imagine there is someone in your life you can depend on to pamper, heal and revitalize you, and treat you royally -- for at least a few undisturbed hours each week. Now, imagine that “someone” is YOU. Pick something that would bring you great pleasure – an activity, an experience, or a material gift -- and agree to give it to yourself.

Start off with something simple Try a “self love bath.” Crown yourself Queen for a Day or Goddess for several hours a week – and pamper yourself. Buy beautiful candles, scented oils, flowers. Draw a bath. Play relaxing and sensual music. Slip into the warm water, daydream and allow yourself to bask in the energy of love. It truly creates an impression in your own mind and spirit that you are someone who deserves royal treatment and who is willing to receive it! I cannot tell you how much a simple act of self-love will bring you closer to receiving pampering from others. At the most basic level – a nice warm bath with candles is very relaxing and it gives you a chance to meditate… and get a new perspective on life.

How do I love me, let me count the ways. Other simple delights include: light a candle and relax in a favorite chair for 15 minutes; take yourself to a movie, out to dinner or to a museum exhibit you’ve been meaning to see; buy yourself a small gift. The best way to keep your soul nourished is to create an ongoing environment for this nourishment.

Date yourself regularly: Many of us take time out for ourselves just once in awhile and neglect to create the foundation for ongoing revitalization. Why not carve out time and put things in order so that you can access these experiences of self-love and care, regularly. This may mean keeping your favorite bath oil and candles on hand at all times… or ensuring that you have several hours a week alone, to yourself. Think of it this way… if you were dating someone special, wouldn’t you go out of your way to make dates and focus attention on the relationship? Do it for yourself, first… this sets the groundwork for others to treat you like the goddess you are!

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Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway is an interfaith minister and non-denominational wedding officiant, as well as a spiritual counselor/author devoted to empowering women's self esteem and spirituality. She is creator and instructor of Find Your Spiritual Soul Mate: Transforming Your Romantic Destiny with A Romantic Resumé an email course available exclusively at SelfhealingExpressions She is author of A Goddess Is A Girl's Best Friend: A Divine Guide To Finding Love, Success and Happiness (Perigee Books, December 2002) and the forthcoming, Wedding Goddess, (Perigee, Spring 2005). Visit Rev. Laurie Sue at Goddess Friends and Wedding Goddess


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Silence is Golden:An Essay for Mothers


(c) by Susie Michelle Cortright

The old saying is true: Silence is golden. It is a rare commodity among moms, not just because of Power Rangers and V-Tech toys, but because we forget the purpose that silence serves.

We are forever supposed to be talking to people, listening to people, or wishing we could be. A friend of mine recently announced that, the night before, she sat at a bar, ordered a lager, and read a book by herself. The moms answered her with oohs of admiration. She went by herself? She didn’t talk to anyone?

In college, every so often I would spend a Friday or Saturday night home alone. It was the quietest time of my week, when my roommates and friends were out being loud. The phone was quiet. The house was quiet. Wonderfully, wonderfully quiet.

When I announced my pregnancy to one of these college roommates, she was concerned. “Won’t having a baby cut into your alone time?” she asked.

Did it ever.

That’s why my alarm rings at 4 each morning. I get three hours before the house is filled with the sounds of telemarketers, Sesame Street, Horton Hears a Who, and toddler temper tantrums. At 4am, all I hear is the hum of the computer and my own keystrokes.

Not everyone needs three whole hours. Some moms may fill the quota with a non-interrupted 10-minute shower, or by turning off the television 30 minutes early each evening, or by simply making the creation of personal quiet time a priority.

We have grown so unaccustomed to the sound of nothing that it sometimes seems as though it could swallow us up. On those rare occasions when no one is talking or no one is home, we fill the silence with background noise, which we have come to feel we need in order to function. We put in a CD or turn on the TV. Perhaps we’re afraid we’ll grow accustomed to silence, and we will learn the power that quiet time can have in our lives.

Silence is a therapeutic punctuation mark in a busy day, a pause made all the more striking by the usual din of motherhood, and a bit of quietness in your day will help you appreciate and welcome the noise that will inevitably follow.

Try weaving a bit of silence into your day. You might just grow to treasure those moments. Moments to reflect. Think. Contemplate. Pray. Or just stare into space.

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Susie Michelle Cortright is the author of several books for women and founder of Momscape.com, a website designed to help busy women find balance. Visit Momscape today and get Susie's *free* course-by-email "6 Days to Less Stress" as well as "Spa Recipes for All Seasons" in PDF.

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Recycled Love


by Mysti/Fran Hafey



"Sometimes love gets battered and torn and we just have to recycle it making it brand new!"
~Mysti/Fran

I often overhear people telling others how this or that happened when they were a child and that’s why they are the way they are today. They feel that they didn’t get enough love, or their parents loved their sibling more, or they just had it tough. Funny how we perceive things when we’re a child.

I have observed that most children whine less about a lot of things than adults. They are usually quite happy with what they have and how they are loved, until someone shows them something different or takes it away.

Not all people love the same and not all people can love everyone the same way. There are many kinds of love.

Over the years while walking my spiritual path, I have remembered my childhood and worked through times when I didn’t feel so loved. I felt that my Mother was too busy with my siblings and I was the “different” child and my Father, he worked too much and was always tired.

My parents gave me the love they knew and more, and I appreciate that very much. They took the love they were given and shown as children, grew up and had to recycle some of it to pass onto their children.

Recycle you say? Yes, often we have to take the love we get and sometimes its not so perfect or pretty or even that clean, so we have to take it, clean it up, remember it all, but toss out the bad parts, take the good parts and put them all together again. We recycle the love and learn to love even better!

It’s like aluminum cans. We buy them, drink what’s in them, we crush them and take them to the recycle center. The recycle center takes them and melts them back down and makes all new cans. They come out looking shiny and new for us to use all over again. In this whole process we had to do our part, we had to make an effort to take those used cans, empty and crushed, back to the recycle center to be made new again.

Love is like that. You may feel used and crushed...you may not feel so new anymore, bogged down with problems and wondering what to do next. Maybe you need a big change in your life and happiness. That all begins right there within you with the resources you already have.

It’s time for you to find what you need in your life and clean it up, toss out the bad parts and take the good parts and put the “new you” all back together again. It’s a matter of processing, of accepting that maybe your life has had some rough spots, but without the rough spots, how would we grow?

The love we have had or been shown up to now, may not have been perfect and we long for better love and a better life. You CAN have that, I mean, just look where you are right now!! You’re reading this and that means changes are occurring in your life, right now!!

Take the love you have and recycle it. Remember the process can take time. Take that love, that you feel is inadequate and change it into a new love that makes your heart soar and know that you are always loved. You are love and you can share the love you have.

Recycled love is a love that has seen its worse days but now, starting right now, you can reshape that crushed love, that old love, that used up love and recycle it into a beautiful new love, because you are love. You are a being that loves love and loves to share love. What we share we always get back, in so many ways.

Recognize that love and light in your life today and get to work recycling!!

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Mystickblue (c) 2003 All rights reserved.

This article may be freely published so long as the author's Bylines and resource box remain intact.

About the Author:

Fran Hafey is a Minister, Reiki Practioner, Writer, Healer, Spiritual Counselor and Teacher. She provides guidance and inspiration via her Website, groups and newsletter on the World Wide Web. To read more of her articles visit the Author's Website: http://Mystickblue.com or http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SpiritualPathways/join

She's currently working on publishing her own books about love, inspiration, magic and nature stories for Children of all ages.

From the desk of Mysti/Fran Hafey at Mysticblue ~Where we believe in Miracles and Magic~
"The task ahead of you is never as great as the power within you!"

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Creating Financial Abundance


(c) Dr. Laura De Giorgio

The topic for this article was inspired by numerous emails I have received from people who are struggling to have their financial needs met. It is also dedicated to those who work at jobs they dislike. At the same time, no, it is not for those who are fantasizing about getting something for nothing and who firmly believe that the world, whether God or society, or their parents, or whoever, owes them a living. If you have a healthy mind and a healthy body, you were meant to use them to live a healthy, harmonious and balanced life.

The purpose of this article is to help you create all the money you need to have all of your needs met, in a way that makes you feel good about yourself and about your life.

If you are struggling with money, then you need to change the way you look upon money. And even if you have lots of money, but other areas of your life are falling apart, you need to change the way you look upon money. This is not hard, but it does require willingness to look at money in a different way than you may have been accustomed.

Money is just a form of energy, so for a moment, you may let go of the idea of money and just focus upon the idea of energy, even the life-force that you breathe in and out every moment of your life. It's easy, it's natural - to breathe. You take in energy, you give out energy, you let it flow ... you don't try to stop the flow, you don't sit and worry when you exhale whether and where from will another breath come, you just let it come in and go out. You can do the same with money ... just let it come in, and let it go ... in a balanced way.

Every moment of your life you are exchanging your energy with the world around you. You are not just giving or just taking, but exchanging different forms of energy. And energy is convertible.

You go outside and it's a beautiful sunny day and it makes you feel so good and happy. You feel nourished by the warmth and the brightness of the sun and then you go and share it with the world. You walk around with a smile on your face and someone smiles back and says "Hi!". And you may respond and even engage in a pleasant conversation.

This is all a natural exchange of energy. You didn't work hard at it. You were just enjoying yourself and expressing the good feelings you felt. The world reflected it back to you and you ended up being enriched in some way.

Creating financial abundance is just like that. You look into your heart and find something that makes your heart sing with joy, something that you enjoy doing, something that feels natural for you to do and makes you feel good about yourself. Then you go out and share it with the world. If you like to sing and dance, you go out and sing and dance. If you like to write, you sit down and write. If you like to create something, you go out and create it.

You don't do these things because of money, but because they make you feel good. As you share the joys of your heart with the world, you are offering your energy to the world and the world will offer its energy back to you; and if money is what you need, then you may ask for money and you'll get money.

If you have enough money and you don't need any more, then you can exchange it for some other form of energy, whether it's a smile, feeling of appreciation and gratitude of whatever other form of energy you'd like to experience.

What you are ultimately exchanging is love ... you let your heart speak through what you do and you get love back in any form that fulfills your needs. If you share a lot of love with the world, you get lot of love back. And again, this energy of love is convertible. It will take any form that is required to meet your needs. As you let it flow out of you freely and open yourself to receive it freely, just like the flow of your breathing, whatever you may ever need, will come your way.

When you breathe, you never think that you have to be in some particular spot in order to get the air that you need. You know that the air is all around you, and so is love and the energy of money. In it you live and move and have your being. You can even love a sunny day, or a tree, or a pet, or do something that makes you feel good to help one person and get money in exchange - from a totally different place - even a lottery - because you are at all times exchanging the energy with the world, not with any particular place or person. It is a wholistic relationship.

So, if you lose a job, it doesn't matter. That job is not the "source" of your financial abundance. It is only one of the "channels". The "source" of your financial abundance is the world, or more appropriately the love you choose to share with the world. As you go out to do something that will make the world a better place, the world will do something that will make your life more fulfilling and meaningful.

Do not get fixated on any particular "channel" for any of your needs, financial or otherwise. If you do, you'll get stuck and you'll feel frustrated when that particular channel is unable or unwilling to deliver what you need. Let go and let what you need come from wherever it wants.

Do not let fear block you from expressing what you really love to do. Have guts to follow your heart and be true to yourself. You develop a healthy relationship with money not through fear, but through love, through honoring and expressing your heart, through doing that what you love, through doing that which is meaningful to you, through doing that which makes you feel good about yourself and about your life.

Sometimes I get emails from people who say they want to "help the world" but don't have enough money. If you genuinely desire to help the world, then you can begin with what you have, by taking whatever action you are able to take. Your love, desire and enthusiasm for your "mission", supported by your action, will then draw into your life whatever help you may need, financially or otherwise, to serve the world in a way that is most appropriate for you. And even if you don't have a single coin to your name, if you just sit in meditation and send feelings of love and goodwill to the entire world, the way will open up and the opportunities will come your way. Love always responds to love, though what you need and desire may come from totally unexpected channels.

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A Small Story with a Big Meaning


by Gill

My meeting with Claire and David was preceded by a week of hidden anticipation. I say hidden because I pride myself on being able to provide whatever midwifery care is required in as calm a manner I can muster, and my friends at the surgery were teasing me about swimwear and snorkels and cellulite (mine). Why? Because Claire and David desired a water birth at home. I was excited.

The inspiration for a water birth came from Claire. She explained : "knowing about water birthing I had decided that I wanted my baby to be born underwater a long time before I was pregnant. I come from France and my mother is a Rebirther, therefore I am used to alternative methods of healing. Water birthing is linked with my research of a better world, better humanity and better relationships between the beings. The birth trauma is a big blockage at the beginning of a life and to progress in any field we have to solve this problem or blockage before going further, and we should use anything that allows us to eliminate or at least reduce it. I have done a lot of reading about dry birthing and especially water birthing as a kind of re-experience, and have now gathered a real information file about the birth".

I am really impressed by Claire's search for her goal; obviously she had knowledge of water birth but her efforts to attain it are an achievement. It started before she left France in July 1989. She had letters of response from :

1. Marie Stopes House, London
2. The Maternity Alliance, London
3. N.C.T.
4. Ben Bartle, Prosperity Consultant - Ref. to Jane Arnold, London. British Rebirthing Society, London.
5. International Active Birth Centre, London, who provided a very comprehensive list which included :
a. Society to Support Home Confinement, Lygate Lane, Walsingham, Bishop Auckland DL13 3HA
. b. N.C.T. London. Alexandra House, Oldham Terrace London W3 6NH
. c. A.R.M. 62 Greetby Hill, Ormskirk, Lancs. L39 2DT
. d. Ass. Ind. Midwifes, 65 Mount Nod Road, London SW16.
e. Health Rights, 344 South Lambeth Road, London SW8 1UQ.
f. R.C.M. 15 Mansfield Street, London W1.
g. M.I.D.I.R.S. Westminster Hospital, Dean Ryle Street, London SW1.
baby born underwater h. International Home Birth Movement 22 Anson Road, London N7 0RD.
Claire was 27/40 when I met her at the booking clinic in Biddulph, Stoke-on-Trent. She had, of course, already met Dr. Smith who was slightly nonplussed but did not discourage her. He referred her to me, a N.H.S. Community Midwife, who believes in the absolute and undeniable right of the woman to choose the method and place of birth, if normality prevails. Midwifes are required by law to give this service.

My aquatic training began. Claire gave me copies of numerous reports of babies born in tubs and I also read :

Ideal Birth - Sondra Ray
Models of Love - Joyce and Barry Vissell
Life before life - Helen Wombach
Water Babies - Erich Sidenbladh - about the work of Igor Tjarkorvsky who has been delivering babies in water for 27 years.
This was the one. I wanted Claire to have, without reservation, the birth for her child the equal of which could only be matched, but not bettered, anywhere in the world, and I wanted her to have it in the way that is available to any other woman in this country , and I wanted to be proud of it.

Meanwhile, I informed Miss Beech, my A.D.M.S., who came with me when I visited Claire and David at home. She gave warm and whole hearted support; came up with a checklist from a hospital waterbirth, which I found useful; took Karen my support midwife, Carole another midwife who had a mother vaguely interested at the time, and myself to Birmingham to see the tub used by them, and to speak to the midwife who performed the delivery, who happened to be too busy anyway. I was furnished with a bleep so that I could have my holiday knowing that Claire could contact me anywhere. A video show was arranged of Roger Lickey and his tub in Cornwall, but this fell short of a full water birth to me as, by this time, Claire, David and I are aiming for the ultimate, and propose to leave the baby submerged until the cord pulsation slows down, thereby giving the baby the total benefit of a recovery time in an element more familiar and favourable to him, and only introducing him to air itself slowly and gradually. The baby has Claire's pregnancy continued in a favourable manner and regular attendance at the local swimming baths (3-4 times a week) helped to maintain her general health and well being.

The due date of the baby was 23rd December 1989, and the wished for date was 25th December 1989 - I did wonder about the publicity. An important date before that was the arrival of Claire's mother, Mireille, from France. She had been a professional teacher of problematic children and she was a Rebirther, something completely new to me. I was really very pre-occupied with the preparation for the water birth and my other work that I was unable to learn about Rebirthing, but Mireille promised to come to our branch of A.R.M. in the New Year and introduce it to us. David and/or Claire would come along to interpret. Mireille's English is good but she feels a little slow.

Mireille will be with us for the birth and will be helping Claire to cope with her labour. Claire and David's birth plan is really very simple :

1. No drugs.
2. No intervention.
3. Unobtrusive midwifery.
4. Total water birth.
5. Bury placenta in garden.

We had a full blown rehearsal on 12th December 1989. Miss Beech, Karen, myself, Claire, David, Mireille and the electrician to check for safety of the tub. Everything was satisfactory. I was presented with the bleep and David tested it and recorded the number. We all took tea and tasted Claire's home baked bread, which set Miss Beech off thinking of her continental holidays. I had a wonderful holiday the week leading up to and including Christmas Day, my very favourite time of the year, and this year it held a special promise. I visited Claire once during the week to do antenatal checks, arranging to see her again in one week. The baby was in a posterior position and his head was not engaged, and there was no weight gain since 37/40.

28th December 1989

Claire had a readjustment to make because the baby did not arrive on Christmas Day, there was a natural dejection present. She was now term + 6 days. She also felt that the baby was sulking with her. We decided that the baby preferred to choose his own birthday and we would trust him, but Claire still had some tension, probably because a suggestion had been made that if she arrived at term + 10 she must deliver in hospital. In view of this we discussed making an arrangement for Claire to see a sympathetic obstetrician. I also felt the need for reassurance and support for the following reasons :

1. No weight gain since 37/40 weeks.
2. Non-engagement of the baby's head.
3. Long holiday period ahead of three days with minimum staff.

Plan for 29th December 1989

Ultra sound scan 10.30 a.m. This showed a smaller than average baby. Liquor lessening otherwise N.A.D. Appointment with Mr. Grant at Leek Memorial Hospital. Monitor for 30 minutes before seeing Mr. Grant. This was satisfactory. Mr. Grant gave calm reassurance whilst agreeing with the diagnosis of baby's head being 3/5 above the pelvic brim. He suggested another monitoring in a day or two and said he would see Claire again on Tuesday week at the North Staffs. Maternity Hospital. We had another eleven days. Claire and David were happy and relaxed.

19.00 hours, the same day

Claire is experiencing some abdominal discomfort and has entered the tub. I arrived to find Mireille giving Claire a facial massage to help her to feel better. The usual observations showed that all was well. An underwater vaginal examination disclosed a ripening of the cervix and the head entering the pelvis. I stayed a while and we talked with gentle anticipation of the experience ahead. We all decided to go to bed and seek some sleep. I slept well, confident that I would not be needed during the night and feeling that we were all well prepared.

06.30 hours, 30th December 1989

David rang to say that Claire's discomfort had continued all night and that she had entered the tub again. I waited until 08.00 to ring Karen, who was also on duty, so that she could prepare her day with us in mind. My re-examination of Claire showed some effacement of the cervix and 1+ cm. dilatation. The station of the head remained the same, all other observations were normal. Claire was coping very well with the contractions which were short and sharp, about every four to five minutes. I made some preparations and commenced the partogram. I then left arranging to come back at 13.00.

The word was about in Biddulph and I received a few phone calls. I reported, as arranged to Mrs. Thomas, and agreed to keep her informed through the day. I also told the G.P. on duty but he did not feel the need to visit as Claire only wanted the minimum of distraction. Karen rang me about midday, I was feeling that the labour would be a long one, we planned that Karen should rest in the afternoon ready to relieve me later on.

13.00 hours

Claire and David are in the tub very absorbed in the labour, moving and adjusting in a very emphatic way, the plan to take photographs forgotten. A lot of low back massage is needed and David knows just how to do it.

The vaginal examination showed a fractional increase of dilatation, the head was a little lower, the contractions were causing Claire to be very distressed. Indeed she cried out loudly, she said that it helped her to call out. David looked shaken by her obvious travail. Her mother was offering tremendous but unobtrusive support. She gave me a mischievous smile when she showed me her swimwear under her thermal and woollies (she has been feeling the cold). She will enter the tub only if Claire invites her to. I thought about my theatre suit.

I was, at this time, experiencing a feeling of helplessness. I wanted to help Claire. I closed my eyes and pictured a scene. It was like a Leonardo da Vinci drawing of an open uterus, the baby was in a posterior position, the head was not engaged, the cervix was 2 cm. dilated. I mentally rotated the baby, gently flexed the head into the pelvis and insisted that the cervix gave way. It was so clear and strong.

I asked Claire to maintain an upright position to aid the descent of the baby. She responded well. At about 15.00 I left, again arranging to come back at 17.00. I needed to be somewhere that I could examine my negative thoughts and feeling and set the scene ahead in plenty of time in case we needed any medical help. At 16.00 I became very restless but felt that they would be alarmed if I returned before I said I would. However, at 16.15 I decided to go. On arrival I found that it was really quiet now and serene and David said "We have experienced some changes. Claire is pushing down now with her contractions"!!

16.30 hours

Claire had adopted a kneeling squat position and was not happy to move, so I examined her in that position. What an astonishing and wonderful surprise, lo and behold an egg-sized portion of the baby's head was apparent. I phoned Karen, my voice sounded rather trembly. I had not time to put on my theatre suit, I couldn't see the baby so I had to feel. I just kept my hand gently cupped over the advancing head and lightly felt the condition of the labia and perineum, Claire asked me to stop so I did.

David had adopted the same position as Claire behind her and so was in the perfect place to look into the face of his son as it was smoothly and gently delivered. The baby looked patient and calm, a little cloud of pinky mucous floated out of his mouth, restitution took place as I checked for the cord, and I eased the shoulders out with one hand and floated him under his mother's body, and she took him into her hands at 16.44. David was overcome with emotion and leaned weeping his gratitude onto Claire's back and as the baby boy came into his mother's vision he opened his eyes and looked up through the water into her face. He looked so calm, wise and reassuring, I felt that he knew all that he would ever need to know of any importance. He gave me the confidence to leave him under the water. I held his cord and he held my fingers. David came round to the front of Claire and they were together. Claire made little murmurings, apart from which it was quiet. From time to time I said "His cord is pulsating strongly"

Congratulations abounded, hugging and weeping with joy and relief - including me - there was nothing to do but experience this fully. I was so sorry that Karen had not been with us, she had given me such support that I missed her.

Zenon's cord did not stop beating until about 17.05. I asked Claire to rise out of the water and the placenta delivered at 17.10 into a receiver quite readily. The blood loss was minimal and then Claire sat back in the water again and we separated the cord. In Claire's own time she retired to the bedroom and offered her son the breast.

She sustained a tiny posterior vaginal wall tear and a little labial laceration which were not sutured, and presented no problem in the days to follow. Zenon weighed 3.000 kg. or 6-10. He continued to suckle at will and Claire recovered normally.

I visited one evening and David and Zenon were in the bath together, and he has a bath each day with one or other parent. The tub has been returned to Bristol now and Abel B'Han said that out of 100 tubs borrowed 50 of the babies were born under water. He did not say how many spent their first minutes there.

I have to say that this experience has been the climax to my midwifery life and fulfilled a lot of my beliefs. It has been a privilege.

The Labor of Love

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Venus Transit: The Oneness Celebration

The Oneness Celebration during the Venus Transit of June 6-8 this year takes place at an amazing gathering of energies in the Mayan calendar. In the age old Tzolkin calendar the venus transit has been celebrated without interruption by the Mayan people for some 2500 years. The Oneness Celebration is a gathering celebrating the Venus Transit of June 2004 and a Meditation to focus on the Enlightenment of Humanity by the Year 2012.

http://www.experiencefestival.com/index.php/topic/articles/article/2033

Where the transit will be visible.

http://sunearth.gsfc.nasa.gov/eclipse/transit/TV2004.html

If you are interested in phenomonal events, then the history of this particular transit will tickle your brain and maybe even your heartstrings. http://sunearth.gsfc.nasa.gov/sunearthday/2004/index_vthome.htm


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Words of Wisdom



"… the Sisterhood is in all of us. It is every woman who is keeping the dream alive. And the oldest dreamkeepers, the Grandmothers, are in danger at this very moment. We must write and we must act to keep the knowledge and the powers of woman alive."

- Lynn Andrews -


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